Thanks for everything..Suh Cheng

I am not able to blog for the past few day due to lifestyle "adjustment" after siput girl is born. It is second adjustment and i must admit it not easy or comfortable. First adjustment was after siput boy born, i have to say bye bye to my nostalgia "roti canai" and lepak with friends at mamak stall during night time. My regular exercise also have to cut down to weekend only. (Now almost no exercise already)

It need lots of discipline to implement the changes and must overcome physical and mental testing. But all the necessary adjustment is nothing compare the sacrifice that's my wife have made...and it was twice.

1. After my first son born, I have a different perception and respect for woman instantly. Seeing my wife go through all the pain when deliver, I feel like learning how to respect woman more authentice again. The second child is same, the feeling is just still there. Mother are most important element in define the meaning of future generation. I can see what all the hardship i been going through in my life is nothing compare the sacrifice of great woman who i love.

2. Breast Feeding is actually not simple and it's pain. Sometime i see my wife crying when breat feeding. I ask why? She say when the baby suck the milk, her uterus pain. This pain is more obvious especially for the first week after deliver. Don't forget the pain and frustration when the milk is need to be push out every few hours. No wonder nowsday most female don't like breast feeding.

3.Confinement period. Most chinese people spent at least RM 2k ~ 4K for 1 month treatment. this not included if they hire confinement outdoor services or full time confinement lady which total cost can easy go up to RM 8-10K! I am lucky coz my mom in law are avaiable this time. Save a lot. But experience tell me that confinement period is the time your wife like to argue with your mom or mom in law!! Funny!

Thanks for my wife. You have give me 2 miracle hanging and mingling around. Yet i still have not plan for our delayed honeymoon...

Thank You